Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Feeling guilty

Hello there! Sorry about the long pause in our blog entries. The last few weeks have been pretty busy and writing on the blog has for some reason always been postponed to later. Much later as it turned out.

Anyway. The main things that have happened are a meeting with Elias' nursery teacher to talk about his development and a visit to the clinic for an 18 month check-up.

At nursery they go through a "list" of things like what the child likes to play, how he/she solves conflicts, how the sleeping works and so on. She said he really likes the "gathering" in the morning when they sit down and sing songs, he loves reading books, moving the chairs around, and to play with the soft toys. He and a little girl Amelia often plays next to each other thinking they are playing with each other. He isn't so fond of being outside and he handles conflicts by crying. He can't get dressed or undressed himself but he can take his hat off (impressive!), he eats with a spoon, he can climb the ladder up to the nursing table on his own. She also told us he says a few words we didn't know about like bread, milk, octopus (not so sure about this one!). He is usually one of the first to fall asleep after lunch.

At the clinic he was weighed and measured and they checked that he can build a tower from three blocks, that he draws when given paper and crayon, that he says a few words and so on. Normally they also give the child a jab at this checkup but Elias got his early in the summer because we were going to Mallorca so this time he didn't have to have it. Next checkup is at 3 years but we booked a time in between, mainly to keep track of his weight. It is nothing to worry about at the moment although he is pretty big, but we just don't want too much time to pass in case it does turn into a problem.

And now it is almost Christmas. We have already given him his present from us (a huge box of duplo), since we already have quite a few pressies for him to take to England from other people. I can't believe we are leaving on Friday already. It will be interesting to see what he thinks of sitting on a train for 4 hours...

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Melting

It has gotten warm again and pretty much all the snow has melted. Poo! Oh well, I guess we have to be happy for the few days of winter we did have...

Monday, November 24, 2008

Like i said


A lot of snow

Swimming in snow

It is snowing like crazy here! It is great! There has been a pretty bad storm during the night but at the moment the wind has died down and there is just loads of snow falling from the sky.

Yesterday we tried to play a bit in the snow with Elias but he wasn't that keen. Dave tried to go down a little slope on a saucer but Elias hated it. We will get a proper toboggan and try again next weekend (pray that the snow stays!).

I have added some more pictues in the October&November album.

Friday, November 21, 2008

Pathetic


As I said, the lights in our tree look a bit pathetic.... (I hope you notice the wintery street though, not that we can take credit for it..)


The other day the yarn I ordered finally came. Yippie! What I'm making from it is a secret though. But I promise to show you all one day...

Monday, November 17, 2008

Weekend update

Antoher weekend has come and gone. On Friday me and Dave went to see the new Bond while my cousin Therese and her boyfriend Michael babysat. Thank you!

On Saturday morning we went swimming with Elias again and this time he seemed to enjoy it even more than last time. We even "dived"! It was so much fun. I sure hope Dave wasn't right when he said "it can only go downhill from here"...

After Elias' mid-day sleep him and I went to a shopping centre to return a pair of his shoes that had broken (after less than 2 weeks usage, crap!) and to by a few small things. The place was absolutely packed and it isn't even that close to Christmas yet. I don't want to think about what it will be like in a few weeks... Internet shopping, here we come!!

On Sunday we went grocery shopping in the morning, an activity that Elias quite likes. Maybe because the shop we go to have little displays with stuffed animals he can look at. Where you get your eggs, there are a few hens, close to the dairy section you get a few cows and sheep. His favourite is a monkey swinging in a trapeze close to the vegetables. He can sit and look and laugh at it quite long while we run around the shop. We also managed to find him some new shoes which I sure hope will stay in one piece longer than the other ones!


In the afternoon I suddenly discovered that the rain had turned into snow. Wow! When Elias woke up we got him all dressed up so we could go out and play but the snow had then changed back into rain unfortunately. We did manage to hang some lights in the tree outside our house. It doesn't quite look the way we had imagined though. It actually looks pretty pathetic. I think we will have to get the extension pack with more lights...

And he can dance!



Get into the groove...

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

A balancing act

Elias has rediscovered his push cart again. When he was learning to walk and used it he couldn't turn it around when he hit a wall but now he totally masters the art of turning. And boy does he turn! He can walk around for ages in the house twisting and turning. When he has gone in to his playroom and turned around and walks out again he often gets stuck on the threshold and gives out a little squeak. We are then supposed to come and help him. I don't know how many times we have heard that sweet little squeak..

Another new game that I'm not quite that fond of is when he climbs in to the push cart and stands and rocks it. And it gets even worse when he climbs up on the edges of it!



This weekend he started to play with his toy cars as well. I guess he sees what other kids to at dagis and copy...

Saturday, November 08, 2008

Tuesday, November 04, 2008

Rhubarb

Long time no update, sorry about that!

Last weekend was pretty busy. On Saturday we went to the children's fair wich was really fun (I thought anyway) and on Sunday we went to a birthday party for Otto who turned one and in the evening we had a quick visit from Luke and Yoko. Elias was totally mesmerized by Yoko, he couldn't stop looking and smiling at her. It was very cute.

For those of you who don't know, Luke is one of David's oldest friends and he now lives in Tokyo with his wife Yoko. Despite the fact that they live so far away we get to see them a few times a year because they come to Sweden to buy things for Yoko's shop - Rhubarb

We have been a bit bad with taking pictures lately but we will definitely try to improve!

Saturday, November 01, 2008

At Child fair


Father and son watching the entertainment.

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Jumping bean

At the moment all three of us are more or less ill. Elias has had a cough all week and it was probably worst yesterday and now he seems to be getting better. Dave is pretty bunged up and miserable at the moment and I have lost my voice. We try to keep up the good mood though and playing with Elias is a great help, as you can see...

Monday, October 20, 2008

Even more teeth

Elias actually has nine teeth now and yet another one is just about to erupt. They are shooting up like weed at the moment.

I must say that am very proud of finally realising I can shoot videos with my phone and post them on the blog. Unfortunatelly I wasn't quick enough at IKEA so the film is very short, but it can only get better! I will try to catch Elias when he tries to jump, it is very cute. We think it might be something he has seen the kids at nursery do because he is almost obsessed at the moment with learning how to do it.

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Fun at ikea



On Saturday we went to IKEA and Elias was having a ball. He was chasing this moving sign for quite a while...

Today we have had a really nice time with Anna, Patrik and Jacob. We went to a little farm with a few animals and had a fika. On the way back to their flat Elias fell asleep in the pram and when we got there we put him out on the balcony so he could continue to sleep. Later he and Jacob was playing very nicely, maybe not with each other but at least next to each other.

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Tea time


Elias and dave playing in the playhouse while i work in the garden.

Thursday, October 16, 2008

I can't believe it!

Dave did it before me! I am so gutted!! ;-)

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

A bit poorly

At the moment Elias has a bit of a cold. He is still in a good mood, but he doesn't sleep very well in the night. The last two nights we have had him in our bed. I don't sleep that well since he keeps kicking me in his sleep, but it is still better than having to get up loads of times during the night to comfort him.

He has also gotten his 8th tooth recently so that might be causing him to be a bit off coulour as well. He is still in good spirit during the day though, running around and playing.





This is what our new desk looks like by the way.


I have added more pictures in a new album.

Monday, October 06, 2008

More teeth

On the weekend Dave discovered a new tooth so now Elias has 7 teeth! We are guessing now that the bad mood he had a few weeks ago is connected to the new tooth erupting..

Sunday, October 05, 2008

Dagis

Elias has had three days at nursery accompanied by me (dave) and tomorrow I am going to try and leave him on his own.

On the whole I think he has enjoyed it. He gets a bit grumpy when he's tired or hungry but who doesn't? I have sneaked off and left him for ten minutes a couple of times (to repark car) and he hardly noticed I was gone.

He was a bit afraid of the other in-mates at first, but luckily they are all really sweet kids. There are 2 sets of twins in his "class". One have been off sick (kids are off sick all the time!), the other set Hassan and Housain (2 years old) are very sweet to him. Oliver (also 2) is a big bruiser but has a heart of gold. If Elias can keep on good terms with him then no one will pick on him. Then there is Sama who is the same age as Elias but a little more independent probably because she's been at the nursery a while already. Amelia and Mamadu are a mere 1 year old and much smaller than Elias so shouldn't cause him any problems. It's amazing the difference between a 1 year old and a 16 month old like Elias.

When it is time to sleep, the kids are put in a quiet dim room with little foam mattresses and towels for blankets and expected to go to sleep. Amazingly they do pretty quickly and without fuss. I hope Elias will quickly get used to that.

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

The first frost


Winter is coming...

Friday, September 26, 2008

The bike is back!!!

Yippiee! Yesterday Dave went to the open nursery and while he was waiting for the bus he thought he could take a little walk around the area to see if he would find my bike. Sounded like a real long shot but it actually worked!!

A block away from the bike parking lot, he found it leaned against a wall, still locked. He managed to drag it back to the station and I picked it up on my way home from work. It has quite a few dents and scratches but it is still much better than having to buy a new bike! The seat has been lowered quite a lot so it seems like someone was definitely planning to use it (or maybe they managed to pick the lock and have already used it..).

Also, I forgot to tell you about one of Elias' new skills. He has learned to blow his nose and he is really keen to do it. Unfortunatelly he prefers to do it into bunny's ear or just into thin air, not so keen to do it when we are holding a tissue in front of him...

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Some great stuff and some not so great stuff

Last weekend was great! I just have to say it. The weather was very nice and autumnal, Elias' mood was better than earlier in the week, we got started on a few of the projects we have planned for a while and, well it was just great!

At one point I was standing in the garden fiddling with some earth while planting a few new bushes. Dave was doing something in the playhouse and all of a sudden Elias took off with one of the mini-pushchairs that were in the playhouse and everything just felt right. I looked around and did actually think to myself "this is perfect, this is what it is all about". Of course it only took a minute or so before Elias was upset about something but anyway. At least we had that perfect family moment and I realised it at the time as well!

As I said we got quite a lot done during the weekend. We bought and planted a black currant bush, 4 rose bushes (to go behind the playhouse so Elias and other children won't run out onto the road), and a few smaller things I put down in pots. We also bought a big piece of mdf board that we are going to make a desk from. It is already cut into the right size and Dave has made a nice hole for cables and wires to go through. Now we "just" need to paint it and put it up. We will make sure to document it properly!

On Monday and Tuesday Dave was at work and I was at home again. It was so nice! On Monday I met up with a friend for a few hours in the morning and then Went grocery shopping in the afternoon. Elias mood was pretty good most of the day and one of the nicest things is that he is quite keen to go out and play. He actually went up to the front door and banged on it and then brought me one of his shoes. Point taken! ;-)

Yesterday one of the girls in our parent group came for a visit with her son. The weather was great (not far from the weather on the same date 2 years ago!) and we had a fab time. We went for a walk and then had coffee out on the terrace and went up to the park and... To make a long story short, it was great fun!

And now to the bad stuff. It seems like my bike may have been stolen. Dave borrowed it to ride to the station and yesterday when he came back he couldn't find his keys. He went up to the bike to make sure he hadn't forgotten them there but he hadn't, they are gone. Today I was supposed to pick up my bike on the way home but Dave went there again today and now the bike is gone! Aaaarghhh!!!! Why can't people keep their hands off other peoples stuff?? It is so annoying.
I will still go there today and have a look around but it is probably gone. So now both Dave's keys are gone and my bike. Sigh... Will be a fun evening looking for receipts for the bike and calling the insurance company.. Hopefully we'll get something back anyway..

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Banana, yum!


Holding on tight to his banana on the way home from the shop.

Friday, September 19, 2008

Slow day

I am having a bit of a slow day at work so I thought I should take the opportunity to write a few lines about what's going on..

Since David and Elias came back from England Elias has been a bit poorly and I think Dave has had a few rough days. When they came back Elias had a bit of a temperature and now he has got a cold. He has slept a bit bad a few nights, it is like he can't get comfortable, but the last two nights have been ok.
The last few days Elias has been very grumpy and clingy and has had a very short fuse. Anything can sett off a major tantrum. Poor David has been pretty low the last few days. He did go to the open nursery a few days ago but even that didn't help Elias' mood. Since a girl bit him there earlier in the summer he is apparently not very happy at the open nursery and almost a bit scared of the other children (stupid girl! why did she have to do that??)

On Monday and Tuesday Dave will have a bit of a break though because we will switch roles then. I will be home with Elias and Dave will participate in a kick-off with work. Should make a nice change for him (and me!).

Also, it is getting close to nursery start now. Only a week and a half until we start the "training", I sure hope it will be ok. Hopefully Elias has left this super-sensitive phase by then and is up for getting to know new friends!

Monday, September 01, 2008

Happy toddler

I think we have failed to properly say this before but Elias is now a toddler! He walks loads and really likes it. He isn't too keen on walking outdoors yet though. I don't know if it is because of the shoes or if it is because we need to mow the lawn...

I have added some more pictures in the August & September album by the way. There you can see some of the progress David and dad has made on the shed roof. It was almost completed yesterday evening!
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Monday, August 25, 2008

Good manners


Apart from improving his walking he is also getting quite clever with the spoon.

Friday, August 22, 2008

Back in business

Last Saturday we came back from two lovely and hot weeks in Mallorca. We were too busy enjoying ourselves to take many photos but here are a few anyway.. We had a great time but now it is back to reality again. I started my new job on Monday and so far it feels really good. Dave is at home with Elias and every day when I have come home from work Dave has cooked a really nice dinner.. I could definitely get used to this!

Elias was originally to start nursery on August 25 but we have now delayed it to October 1st. We did it so that Dave would get a bit more alone time with Elias but also so that Elias would be a bit bigger and hopefully walk by the time he starts.

About the walking.. Almost all summer he has been trying to learn and this last week he has made huge progress. He still prefers to crawl but he is really keen to practise and quite often walk pretty long stretches.

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Another day at the beach


So here we are again. Great weather and great fun at the beach!

Tuesday, August 05, 2008

Sunday, August 03, 2008

Travelling like the locals


Today we are being adventurous travelling with local busses to port de polenca. So far it has worked well. The standard me the busses are very good. Looking forward to finally reaching our base camp!

Saturday, August 02, 2008

Ready for take off


Been up since 2 am, the boy since 3 am. At the airport now having breakfast, waiting for take off. So far so good!

Sunday, July 27, 2008

Stung


Today elias was stung by a wasp, poor thing. He does not seem to suffer from it much though and is happily playing.

Friday, July 25, 2008

His first mobile


Finally we gave in and bought him his first mobile phone.

Bobby car


Bought a bobby car for elias today. He doesn't quite get it yet but we are sure he will love it eventually...

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Mobile test


Thanks for the lovely bird auntie anki!

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

More new skills

Apart from almost walking Elias has also learnt how to climb stairs. While we were up at my parents he practised it quite a lot and now he can get up most stairs.

Two new teeth erupted while we were up north now making the tooth-count an impressive 5!

Monday, July 21, 2008

Almost walking

Yes, we think it is very close now.. When my sister was here he first started to take a few steps but then it was more like a game. It seemed like he really liked to throw himself on us and we catch him.

The last few days he started to take a few more steps but was still very unstable and unbalanced. Today it seems like he has taken quite a big leap forward though. He both walks to and from us and is more willing to let go and tries to keep his balance.. It will probably still be a while before he is completely confident but he is sure getting there!

A word of warning...

Do not, I repeat NOT put this toy: on your forhead.

Or the result might be this:

Thursday, June 26, 2008

More recap

Thought I should continue the recap so no one feels left out! :-)

After mum and dad were here they went down to my sister in Lund and visited her for a few days. Meanwhile we oiled the terrace. It is looking so nice now!
Wednesday a week ago Alison and Russell came and it was so great to see them. We visited Skansen again and managed to see a few more animals this time, including a moose baby. So cute! On Friday Sweden celebrated Midsummer and as always the weather was a bit crappy. In the morning we had some ok weather though and went down to the lake for a picknick. In the evening we had a semi-traditional midsummer meal and some snaps (and songs of course!).
Russell also helped Dave mount our TV on the wall. We think it will stay up.... So now we have re-arranged the room a bit and we think it is for the better. Now we just need to win the lottery so we can afford some new furniture and then it will look spectacular!

Yesterday my sister and the dogs came. She is working today and we are dogsitting. We haven't told her yet, but we are planning to make sure to get the favour returned and go to the cinema or something one night. Moahahaaa. ;-)

Sunday, June 22, 2008

A short recap of a long time

So sorry about the lack of blog updates.. Here comes a little recap of all the stuff we have been doing lately.

The Hills visit
Between May 26-30 the Hills family came to visit us. We had a great time and the weather was super. We spent one day at Skansen, one day at the lake, and made a trip to Kaknästornet. We had a great time and we think they liked it too. The previous owners of the house left a big trampoline which was a big hit with the boys (and the adults too).
Dave also appreciated the help he got from Oliver with strengthening the roof of the shed. A few other things got taken care of as well with Oli in the house.

Joyce's visit
Joyce came to visit us between June 2-8 so she was lucky enough to be around for Elias' first birthday! Apart from celebrating Elias we also made a daytrip to Gustavsberg where we looked in a few nice shops selling porcelain and had a nice lunch.


We also saw the smoke from a nearby fire...We had a day at the lake as well where Elias got to try a bit of David's soft ice cream which turned out to be a bit of a mistake. Elias thought it tasted very nice and when there was no more ice cream left he screamed like crazy. We got a few weird looks from people around us..

The Bloms
On Saturday the 7th my mum and dad came, just in time for the birthday party held on Sunday. Dad helped David with the shed roof a bit and sanded the terrace. After they left we oiled it and the terrace now looks better than ever.

On mum and dad's last day here they were very nice and babysat for us while we went to Bwin's summer party.

Monday, June 09, 2008

More pictures

Sorry about the poor rate of updates lately. We have had so much fun with all of our visitors that we haven't had time to update the blog.

I have posted some of the pictures we took while the Hills were here. They can be found in the April&May album. It was a great week with great weather.. Will write more about that and Joyce's visit, and the birthday party, and my parents visit on a boring rainy day in the future.. ;-)

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Happy wheezer

Elias has had a cough for a bit more than a week and on the weekend he was quite snotty. Nothing to worry about though. The night between Monday and Tuesday he slept pretty bad but seemed pretty ok in the morning. Then Dave called me around 2 in the afternoon and said that maybe we should have someone look at him because his breathing was quite heavy. He had called an information service before and she had adviced him to go to the hospital, mainly for our peace of mind.

When I got home I was pretty chocked at how heavy his breathing was. He sounded short of breath and was making a wheezing noice. Elias was quite grumpy and we were worried and stressed but after a bit of confusion we had gotten our stuff together and went to the hospital. When we got there we didn't quite know where to go and ended up parking at the wrong end of the site and had to walk pretty far (we had forgotten the push chair of course). When we signed Elias in the nurse immediately could hear that his breathing didn't sound very good and we were sent in to the childrens unit. There they checked his oxygen saturation level to see if he was getting enough air. Then a doctor came and listened to his chest. She said he was what they call a "happy wheezer", that is a baby that has problems breathing but isn't really affected by it. He had been playing and eating as normal all day. She wanted to give him some medicine to improve his breathing and we were sent to another room for that. He had to breathe in the medicine for 30 seconds through a mask and he really hated it. It was quite heartbreaking but at least we knew it would make him better. This was repeated again after 15 minutes and then after maybe 30 minutes the doctor came back to listen to him again. She thought he sounded better but wanted to give him another round of medicine so the whole procedure was repeated again. Breathe in the medicine for 30 seconds, wait 15 minutes and repeat.

While we were waiting for the doctor to come and listen to him again a clown came and visited us. Elias was really mesmerised by her. She sang a bit to him and it was really nice. Then the doctor came back and she thought he sounded good enough for us to go home. The next day a nurse would call and if Elias was worse again she would come to our house and have a look at him. Dave thought he was a lot better yesterday so she didn't come but they agreed that she would call again today and see how Elias is getting on.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Finally...

I have finally manged to take a picture of Elias walking with his little push cart. He loves it! Especially to walk around in the garden is fun..
It was actually pretty difficult to get a good picture, I guess because he is walking sooo fast..

One thing he does a lot now is to point at things and say "da". We think he is trying to say either "titta" (look) or "där/there".. Or maybe he is just saying da.

Monday, May 19, 2008

In case you wonder...

If you have looked at our pictures and wondered what the heck this





is, I can tell you that it is a Japanese snack.





Last time Luke and Yoko visited us we got little bags of snacks. Most of them very tasty and nice, but the little fishes we aren't so sure about. We haven't actually dared to try one yet... Would you?

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Bored at work

I have now worked for a week and unfortunatelly I am quite bored. I don't have a project so I have to make up meaningful things to do to pass the time - not very easy. My guess is that they probably won't find a project for me before the summer so I just have to brace myself.

Anyway, Dave's first week at home with Elias seems to have been very nice. They went to the open nursery a few times, came in to Stockholm and had lunch with me one day and so on. The weather last week was great as well so they were out in the garden quite a bit.

We have had a very intensive weekend as well. On Saturday I was gone all day for a hen night. It was really fun and included a kidnapping of the bride, a near death experience 14 metres up in a tree, a few hours at a spa and a nice dinner. On Sunday it was yet another busy day. Around noon Elias and I went to meet up with some of my girl friends and their kids. The oldest is maybe 7 years and the youngest was 6 weeks. After a semi-relaxed picknick (it is hard to have time to sit down and talk with loads of kids running away to play ;-) ) we drove home to our house. The girls of course wanted to inspect our new house. The weather was amazing and we spent the whole afternoon on the patio. The play house was a big hit with the kids and the grown ups liked the big house too.. Dave did a grand job grilling hotdogs and chicken and we had a great time. The girls left around 6 ish and by then Elias was exhausted. He hadn't slept much during the day and when I put him to bed at 7 I think he fell asleep as soon as his head hit the pillow. I was almost as tired as him and went to bed at 9.30.

Sunday, May 04, 2008

Back to work..

It is quite hard to believe, but tomorrow I am going back to work again. It is amazing how fast these 11 ½ months have passed since I started my maternity leave. Dave has been off work since Thursday becasue there has been a bank holiday and it has been so nice to have a bit of extra time together. In these 4 days we have

* managed to test the bbq for the first time
* showed off the house to my old daymum
* bought and tried a lawn mower (battery)
* been to Maya's 2nd birthday party
* made a trip into town and the modern museum of art. Elias first museum experience and he behaved very well.

Apart from those things we have also done some work in the garden. The lawn is unfortunatelly full of dandeloins, there must be thousands of them. Tonight we bought a special tool for removing them that works pretty well but leaves the lawn looking like a swiss cheese...

Ok, that's all from me for this time, better go and pack my bag for tomorrow!

Sunday, April 27, 2008

Insy winsy spider

On Friday Elias "walked" with his little push car for the first time. When I have put him in front of it before he has always gone down on his knees and tried to suck the handle. But now he does actually take a few steps with it! Very exciting.

Yesterday we had some great weather and we spent a lot of time in the garden weeding. Elias still is a bit suspicious of the "great outdoors" and when put on a blanket he just sits there. Quite nice for us though, we can actually get some work done and not chase him around the garden. ;-)

Elias likes the swing now by the way, and this is how cute he is sitting in it!


Yesterday we had a bit of drama here in the house. A towel had been hanging out on the terrace and we had brought it in. Elias was sitting next to it and all of a sudden Dave shouted "oh my god". On the towel was a huge spider, the biggest I have ever seen in Sweden. My hero Dave managed to kill it and we could all relax. I wonder if the climate change have anything to do with the size of that bugger... Bloody global warming!

I hope you have seen the new photo album - April & May..

Friday, April 25, 2008

Driving drama

Another week is coming to an end and it has been a really nice one. On Monday we went to the open nursery, on Tuesday we met up with Lisa and Theo and went for a walk in the sunshine. On Wednesday we went to Uppsala to meet the people form our parent group. We went for a walk around an outdoor zoo and had lunch together. It was great to see them all.
Unfortunatelly we had a bit of bad luck on the way home. North of Stockholm the road got congested and after a while I realised we weren't moving at all. I phoned David to find out what was going on and after a while he had found out that there had been an accident and the road was actually closed off a bit ahead of us. Elias had been asleep up until now but after a while of standing still he woke up and quite soon he was getting very upset. The traffic was hardly moving at all but after maybe 40 minutes we had gotten to the next exit and I managed to get off the motorway. Dave agreed to quit work early, take the train to Solna (where we were stuck) and we would try to find another route home. Luckily I had a bit of extra food for Elias so he was ok. We did manage to get home in the end but what normally take 1 hour had taken us 4... I really hate bad traffic and with a baby in the car it's just a nightmare..